Comments for The Loop of Confidence http://loopofconfidence.com Fri, 18 May 2012 12:11:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on Stop Thinking About What Other People Are Thinking by admin http://loopofconfidence.com/2010/10/07/stop-thinking-about-what-other-people-are-thinking/comment-page-1/#comment-772 admin Fri, 18 May 2012 12:11:16 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?p=731#comment-772 Hi Mumu, I would be more than willing to do a call with you to help you with this. Would you like to do that? We really need to first establish what YOU think of YOURSELF. It's quite possible you are judging yourself so harshly, you are projecting that back to yourself through what you think other people think of you. A lack of self-confidence does lead to over caring what other people think of us. Are you on Skype? Hi Mumu,

I would be more than willing to do a call with you to help you with this. Would you like to do that? We really need to first establish what YOU think of YOURSELF. It’s quite possible you are judging yourself so harshly, you are projecting that back to yourself through what you think other people think of you. A lack of self-confidence does lead to over caring what other people think of us. Are you on Skype?

]]> Comment on Stop Thinking About What Other People Are Thinking by mumu http://loopofconfidence.com/2010/10/07/stop-thinking-about-what-other-people-are-thinking/comment-page-1/#comment-771 mumu Thu, 17 May 2012 14:23:59 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?p=731#comment-771 hello, I am a student in grade 11, I have been in school for 10 months. I have a ginormous amount of fear in what other students and teachers think of me. For the 10 months I have been in my school, i do not talk to a few people in my class because of the fear of being judged. I try to ignore what i think they think of me however I do not know how to stop it completely. I am really looking forward for a suggestion. Thanks hello,
I am a student in grade 11, I have been in school for 10 months. I have a ginormous amount of fear in what other students and teachers think of me. For the 10 months I have been in my school, i do not talk to a few people in my class because of the fear of being judged. I try to ignore what i think they think of me however I do not know how to stop it completely. I am really looking forward for a suggestion.
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]]> Comment on The Costs of Being Afraid by randy http://loopofconfidence.com/2011/10/04/the-costs-of-being-afraid/comment-page-1/#comment-709 randy Mon, 12 Mar 2012 09:10:47 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?p=1118#comment-709 I came across you video on youtube while looking for infomation on self-esteem for my class. Wow I was impressed Keep up the good work. I came across you video on youtube while looking for infomation on self-esteem for my class. Wow I was impressed Keep up the good work.

]]> Comment on Raising Confident Children by Time to Ease Up the Pressure? | The Confidence Builder http://loopofconfidence.com/courses/raising-confident-children/comment-page-1/#comment-707 Time to Ease Up the Pressure? | The Confidence Builder Sun, 11 Mar 2012 17:08:16 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?page_id=1287#comment-707 [...] 4 tests to study and get ready for.  On top of that, I still released my new program for parents: 5 Keys to Raising Confident Kids. Never mind that on top of it all is endless financial [...] [...] 4 tests to study and get ready for.  On top of that, I still released my new program for parents: 5 Keys to Raising Confident Kids. Never mind that on top of it all is endless financial [...]

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]]> Comment on Ann Bernard – The Confidence Builder by admin http://loopofconfidence.com/about/ann-bernard/comment-page-1/#comment-698 admin Wed, 07 Mar 2012 12:38:27 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?page_id=30#comment-698 Thank you Cynric for leaving such a thoughtful comment. I am very glad to hear that what I wrote resonated with you and had an impact. It's an amazing shift to have take place in our lives once we realize what matters most is to be driven by becoming the person we have the potential to become/aspire to be and how our dreams, ambitions and vision are there to be leveraged to lead us to become that person - have "that" life. It allows us to overcome challenges, obstacles more easily and get over pain faster. It empowers us to get past the pity and avoid drama. I know my dreams have pushed me past all of my limits, hangs up, issues, etc. Although I have not yet materialized my vision in a material way - I have become the person I set out to become and I continue to grow and nurture that person...while committing ever more to my goals, dreams and vision. Hope you'll keep me posted. Wishing you the very best on your journey! Thank you Cynric for leaving such a thoughtful comment. I am very glad to hear that what I wrote resonated with you and had an impact. It’s an amazing shift to have take place in our lives once we realize what matters most is to be driven by becoming the person we have the potential to become/aspire to be and how our dreams, ambitions and vision are there to be leveraged to lead us to become that person – have “that” life. It allows us to overcome challenges, obstacles more easily and get over pain faster. It empowers us to get past the pity and avoid drama. I know my dreams have pushed me past all of my limits, hangs up, issues, etc. Although I have not yet materialized my vision in a material way – I have become the person I set out to become and I continue to grow and nurture that person…while committing ever more to my goals, dreams and vision. Hope you’ll keep me posted. Wishing you the very best on your journey!

]]> Comment on Ann Bernard – The Confidence Builder by Cynric Whitaker http://loopofconfidence.com/about/ann-bernard/comment-page-1/#comment-697 Cynric Whitaker Wed, 07 Mar 2012 04:17:13 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?page_id=30#comment-697 I found your post while researching resources for building confidence for my own website and I was impressed by a couple of items in your post, the lines about are you living your circumstances instead of living your dreams in particular. Even though I'm no longer shy, timid, or insecure like I used to be reading that made me think about my current circumstances from a different perspective. I tend to focus on the work to get where I want to be rather than on what the life/person I want to have/become is like. And I think that latter perspective is better because it's more total. It's not what I do so much as who and what I am that matters. Thanks for that insight! I found your post while researching resources for building confidence for my own website and I was impressed by a couple of items in your post, the lines about are you living your circumstances instead of living your dreams in particular. Even though I’m no longer shy, timid, or insecure like I used to be reading that made me think about my current circumstances from a different perspective. I tend to focus on the work to get where I want to be rather than on what the life/person I want to have/become is like. And I think that latter perspective is better because it’s more total. It’s not what I do so much as who and what I am that matters. Thanks for that insight!

]]> Comment on Self-Confidence to be Yourself by kieran@wayoftheplayer.com http://loopofconfidence.com/2012/01/25/self-confidence-to-be-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-691 kieran@wayoftheplayer.com Thu, 01 Mar 2012 02:09:51 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?p=1243#comment-691 What a great article on the value of self confidence. Keep up the good work! What a great article on the value of self confidence. Keep up the good work!

]]> Comment on Developing Confidence in Children by admin http://loopofconfidence.com/2012/01/05/developing-confidence-in-children/comment-page-1/#comment-599 admin Thu, 19 Jan 2012 00:30:10 +0000 http://loopofconfidence.com/?p=1195#comment-599 Glad you did end up developing your self-confidence and that you recognize how to best help your children develop theirs. It's definitely not easy and parents who shelter their kids too much definitely do it out of love and don't realize the harm they are causing. It's a fine balance...like everything else in life! Glad you did end up developing your self-confidence and that you recognize how to best help your children develop theirs. It’s definitely not easy and parents who shelter their kids too much definitely do it out of love and don’t realize the harm they are causing. It’s a fine balance…like everything else in life!

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