I hear and see crazy things online sometimes! It’s clear that many people are seeking ways to increase their confidence – and a lot of bad advice is still available to those searching.
It baffles me to think anyone would consider this method: Putting other people down as a way to make themselves feel better and “develop their self-confidence.”
It’s a pathetic, sad, despicable thing to even consider and to recommend to anyone. If you’re on a website, social network, or reading a book/magazine with these types of insane recommendations: Get Gone. Don’t waste anymore of your time with that kind of horrible advice. This is what makes bullies, douchebags and @$$hole.
If you choose to go down this path, of putting other people down in order to make yourself look, and feel more confident, than you deserve the rude awakening that will come when someone crushes you. If I meet you, I’ll do the honor.
I have no tolerance for people who judge, pick-on, or berate others to make themselves feel better. This is wrong, even if you are only doing it in your head and not acting on it. It’s just plain wrong.
Your confidence and confidence development has absolutely nothing to do with other people. Confidence development is a very personal journey. Additionally, your level of confidence has everything to do with what you believe about yourself and your potential – it has nothing to do with what others can and cannot do or are/are not.
Do not make your confidence development about other people. Do not associate or root your level of confidence with anyone or to anything.
I teach you to have the self-confidence that is internally rooted on who you are and believe about yourself (if you are a Christian, this is based on what God has told you, you are) Real confidence cannot be taken away because of failure, rejection or the loss of anything. I will help you reprogram your thinking, outlook, and way of being. You will do things you never thought were possible and become the person who stands-up for others and fights for injustices.
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